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Joe Sedita's avatar

I accepted responsibility for my mom more seven years ago when she went blind. Most of our plans for retirement went on hold. The last two years she was in a nursing home waiting, longing for the end. Time accelerated near the end: the last four months, then the last four weeks followed by the last four days and then, her last four hours. She died March 26th. I loved my mom; I’m sad at her passing, but I woke up a week or two ago and realized that the great, suffocating weight I had been carrying (and couldn’t properly describe) was gone. I almost feel like I did in 2015 (except, of course, I’m seven years older). I wonder: where do we go from here?

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Debbie Russell's avatar

In late 2020, I left my lawyer job to write a book. The past (almost) three years have been a rollercoaster as I learn about a world entirely unfamiliar to me. Along the way I've made a number of wonderful new friends. I'm three weeks from launch and actually feeling good knowing I've done everything within my own control to make it successful. Good advance reviews have helped!

When I find myself impatient, or stuck in that "in-between" stage, I concentrate on noticing the tiny changes nature provides. Spring in Minnesota gives me lots of opportunities.

Wishing you all the best as you turn your pages!

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