A thought on fighting reality -- Yesterday I sat under beautiful trees and a 63 degree sunny day in Ojai, California, with thirteen new friends. In between meals and coffee breaks, we sat in a circle for two days with author, podcaster, and former pastor, Rob Bell. We each took turns sitting in a chair opposite Rob in the middle of the circle as we shared a question or project we’ve been sitting with. He leaned forward with questions, coaching, smiles, and a knowing nod when tears sprang to our eyes because we’d stumbled into the thing under the thing.
Thank you for this! I've been challenged with immanent fighting reality the past couple of months, with my mother's illness and ultimate transition. A piece of me is still looking for fists (I'm going to steal that term, it fits so well), while overall I am sad, and so very grateful to have had her so long.
I love this, Jenny. My mantra of the year last year was "Be with what is." So yes. This. Precisely!
Thank you for this! I've been challenged with immanent fighting reality the past couple of months, with my mother's illness and ultimate transition. A piece of me is still looking for fists (I'm going to steal that term, it fits so well), while overall I am sad, and so very grateful to have had her so long.
This essay really spoke to me. Keep writing!